Imagining that my life were a 24-hour day, what time would it be now? It’s hard to contemplate: would my answer be determined by how long I would like to live or by how long I already have? Hmmm, I’m not so sure of which, or if indeed either would count. Really, not many people would give it a thought.
However, have you noticed how your priorities quickly change when you realize you have deadlines or are given a time ultimatum?
Really, if you were told that from this moment, you had exactly 5 years, 3 years, 2 years or just one more to live, or perhaps a month, or a week or only 1 day, what are those things that would suddenly appear in your to-do list or immediately jump the queue to occupy your top 10? These are the things you should do now.
I remember reading a story of a widower who was rummaging through his wife’s things and saw some lingerie she had bought a few days before her demise. She had planned to wear it on some special occasion. She never did because for her that day never came. But if she had known that she would not live to witness that special event, would she have worn it to the mall or the office or some other “less special” place? Perhaps.
Some get the wakeup call after an accident, or at the doctor’s office – the grim announcement of a terminal illness, for example – and everything takes on new meaning.
Although what we consider important is sometimes determined by our milieu, I believe that there are things that are key in the absolute sense, irrespective of our race or background, things without which we cannot be called successful, no matter the magnitude of our material achievements. In my opinion, there’s spirituality and there’s family. There’s relationship and the pursuit of that natural God-given talent, perhaps other things too.
Whatever our wakeup call is though, it is usually time to de-clutter our lives and use our mental secateurs to trim out unnecessary quests- distractions at best – and instead nurture the things that really matter. Our garden looks its best after it has been recently pruned. In a similar way, we will feel and look our best when we take out all the muddle and let the real stuff command our attention.
So what time is it? Time to forge that friendship or mend that relationship, write that book or start that blog or tell that special person how you feel about him or her? Whatever it is, the time is now and the place is here.
Zee, I told you the site is up. she has not posted anything yet. Look at her Icon, can’t you see it has changed? if you click on it, it will take you to her blog though it will not show any post. the next step is getting her to write that first post. I assure you that by tomorrow, she would have posted her first post…
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Oh dear, Yemie, is this you.? Meeen, we’re in for a jolly ride. Ok ok between us,I won’t mind what Topazo says. See hen, whenever it is, I’ll be waiting. Topaz you try.
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Thanks Zee…thanks for helping me to finally break her…
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Call it your partner in….? this ain’t no crime, is it?
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partner in progress
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Love this sis..way to go
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Hey Tobi girl. What’s up? Good to hear from you and thanks for the encouragement
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1. Zee, Yemie has done what she did to my blog, ignite it and set it on fire. I read the convos and I couldn’t help smiling…
2. you are Yemie are sisters, long lost, separated by the cruel hands of fate but has found your way to each other in a sizzling and epic reunion…
3. this piece is a child of introspection. it bears great thought provoking words, and the delivery, oh so smooth.
4. your concluding paragraph was right on point and the part about “time..to start that blog..” please tell your sister (Yemie) that it is time o… every blogger she has met has assumed she was a maestro of some space on the blogosphere and have requested to come learn from her…alas, she has broken many a heart. some have commented that they enjoy her comments more than the posts themselves and some readers ask the blogger about her if she hasn’t visited in a while….please tell her o…
5. maybe we should start a campaign #Yemiestartthatblognow
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I SUPPORT THIS CAMPAIGN…#Yemiestartthatblognow
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Ok good, that makes at least 3 of us. Yemie, you are completely OYO o!
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This aint flying, nuh-uh! Not on ma watch! Hian! LMAO!
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The ‘swaggalicious’ Doc himself! I’ll be checking out thy blog in a tick! Meanwhile this on-going campaign….. I just dunno! Y’all are simply incorrigible! Was ever any mortal so beset by such great resolve as the trio of y’all?! Now this beatz the ‘shiite’ outta me! *smh* LMAO!
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Lolzzzzz. .about time sis..bring thy feather…inkpots n scrolls out n get down to biz…
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*standing ovation* I applaud you Doc, for the great and charismatic orator that you art! Emotional blackmail never looked quite soooo…… beguiling?! Better luck next time, its NOT working! Hmph! LOL
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it is working Yemie..just look!
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We only see we wanna, that’s what you see! Bug off, Doc! *Yinmu* lols
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Zee, Yemi now blogs at http://www.oluwaballer.wordpress.com.
she calls it “my little corner of the web”
yet to post a story but watch out for it.
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Seriously? Woooh! can’t wait to read all the ‘hawt’ stuff she’s been brewing all this while.
@Yemie – My dear, you so rock that anything you post, I will read, trust me, cos I know the stuff you’re made of. Welcome to the blogosphere girl.
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Oh My Word Z-gurl, don’t tell me you totally fell for that bit hook, line and sinker?! Did you???Hahahaha! Its a fluke o! Dr Temitope Ogundare’s well known for his mischiefs and pranks! His mischiefs have got absolutely no limits! Plus, am NOT buying into this blog he’s peddling! Its just part of his antics and pranks, borne outta me calling his bluffs! I have no part in it at least, not as yet! Any posts emanating from that site’s NOT my brainchild and I won’t be ‘arm-twisted’ by the eternal mischief maker himself, whose persona; I am sooo beyond fascinated by, to do that; which am certainly not good and ready for! Chai! Dr Temitope Ogundare will not be the death of me! *laughing*
Thanks girl, enjoy! *winks* lol
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Yemie. .ofe pa wa pelu anticipation. Ko ma da oooo…not fair sis…haven’t you ever heard of if you have it..flaunt it….
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Hehehe! I know Doc, trust me I do! Let me do this at my own pace y’all! I already sound like a broken record and am feeling so guilty right now! Once I get my ducks in a row, I’ll get to it! How ’bout it?! Pretty please y’all with chocolate fudge and cherries on top! I mean, however can you say no to that?! Have a heart guys, please?! *smiley face*
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Se ducks in a row nikan ni…chickens in a circle nko….Yemie..waiting with bated breath n I dont hv an oxygen tank….dnt let me be on ur conscience oooo……do the needful…by the way…I enjoyed the fudge…loooool…
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Chickens in a circle okwa ya?! Hahahahahaha! Choi! I don hia sontin today! Really?! LMAO!
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Lolzzzzz
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Ahem! (clears throat).Ok. let me step in as “moderator” of this conversation………….
Hello Yemie, Dr. Swag & Topazo. How y’all been? I can see I didn’t stand you up, cos you guys have been having fun. Day was really busy. Just getting a breather. Topazo, welldone o! Thanks a ‘bunsh.’ Totally fell for that hook, line, sinker PLUS fisherman, Was now looking for website wey no loss. You try.
Anyways, have fun. Yemie dear, no worries, seeing that this kind of thing is not to be hurried, I’ll wait till whenever. Cos I know then, it’ll be worth the wait. Cheers
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I am surprised that Yemie has not replied already. could it be that she is sulking that we are pushing her to blog by force…
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Hmmmmmm! As I read this,tears ran down my cheeks. This is a masterpiece! Big Sis…thanks for dis luvly reminder. It carries d sentiments of Ecclesiastics 9:10
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Hmmm that my sister y’all👍. Very well wrutten. Already shared on my fb timeline.
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Beautiful and inspiring thought. Thanks
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Its beyond human comprehension my dear until the inevitable arrives ( Death)
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Wow! Sounds like a speech a seasoned motivational instructor would dish out to his audience! Deep! This sizzles piping ‘hawt’ Zee and I totally agree with your line of thoughts! Time waits for no man and tomorrow, even the next second is promised noone! We should appreciate and live each day like its our last! I make sure to seize my days, everyday; its what keeps me sane in an otherwise ‘insane’ world! God bless ya for this darl, wisdom and grace multiplied! Peace n love! LOL
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Thanks Yemie. I looove that phrase, “seize the day, everyday.” As in do it now now! That’s the spirit sis.
You’ve got sooo much in your repertoire dear and I’m learning from you everyday. Merci chérie.
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Yemie..lovely, i think you should really write too….
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Ha. God bless you o! Dr. Swag, that is what Topazo and I have been telling Yemie. You see Yemie dear, you just have to concur
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Lolzzz..Yeah,,she gat flow….wafted from your blog to my literary nostrils like the aroma of swwetened coffee…
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Now this poetic statement right here Doc, is the High Definition (HD) in not only 3D but several D’s of awesomeness! You Sir are the definition of ‘flow’! You’ve gat it going on like WHOA! Thank you so much! ROTFL
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U just did the impossible…you have struck me dumb..Zika would tell you am almost never lost for words…you must be a goddesss on a literary Olympus…Lolzzzzz. .
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Huh??? Goddess on a literary olympus?! Whoa! You’ve just made me speechless and I have absolutely nothing to go on with right now and that, is no mean feat! Certainly not commonplace with me that I’d be tongue tied! Plus, I now know from whence thy name originated from! Its soo glaring! *nodding affirmatively *LMAO!
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REVELATION!!!! Never knew been speechless is a trait of great minds till i got bombarded by the epistles of apostle Yemmie….. i still trump you though…i got speechless before you….you have tainted my gentlemanly traits…you were supposed to be speechless first…
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What can I say then Doc?! Forgive my ‘indiscretion’??? For allowing you go speechless before I! You’re really something else aren’t you?! By Golly! *shakingmyhead* LMAO!
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Lolzz
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Huhh…i am not something else oooo….I am Eze…
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Okay then! I put my foot in my mouth Eze, do accept my apologies! And its really nice meeting and making your acquaintance! You rock, pieces! *laughing*
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Rock pieces…last person i knew who was rock pieces was The Thing and he was not pleasant to hug….also if i rock pieces, i wd just be in bits ,,,,none of me left….
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Zee gurl! I can just see you grinning from ear to ear like a really cute Cheshire Cat! Quit with it already! Gloating does not look good on noone, sooo ‘uncute’! *tongue out* LMAO!
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Gees thanks Doc, what can I say?! I get that a lot?! *laughing*.
Am totally bowled over Sir, you don’t know the half of it! Thanks a lot for the vote of confidence. I’ll give it a lot more thoughts now that you and a couple more folks, like my adorable Zee, continue to validate me! I’m practically buckling under the ‘weight’ of it all! ‘Gawd’ help me! LOL
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I am already buckling under the `weight` of all the literary goodies that you have been hoarding instead of unleashing on the world…”Gawd” help me…
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I’m sooo loving this.
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*raised eyebrow* I’ll bet you are Zee, I’ll REALLY bet! You saucy and pretty sassy lil minx! LOL
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Zee if these are the kind of peeps that populate your site and the kind of wordy tit bits that thrive here….am hooked for life..a veritable junkie of Zika’s musings….for life!!!!
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Oh my goodness! I’m blushing Doc. It’s Yemie o! LOL.
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Anger turns Bruce Banner into a super-hero…I can almost wager that it is blushing that causes yours…so blush on and write on Super sis…
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Nah babycakes, its all YOU and God by extension! Don’t get it twisted, even for a millisec! Rock on, gurl! *winks* LOL
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Touché
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Yemmie, dont pull that modesty bit oooo…na ur buzz ignite Zik’s musing today ooooo…..
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Completely agree
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*shocked* Modesty?! Of what do you refer Doc?! No you didn’t just say that Doc, did you?! Who does this??? You’re an entire case file, I swear it! Jeez! LMAO!
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Hmmm….case file???? Next thing you will call me is some diagnosis….
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You know Doc, you’re a genius of sorts! Just within minutes, you’ve single-handedly succeeded from making me go from speechless to clueless! I dunno what you speak of, which brings me to the question I’ve been dying to ask ‘Who are you’??? *laughing*
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If you allow me to chip in on that, Yemie, he is a blogger. An exceptional one. Has a way with words. You should check him out.
http://ekpoeze.wordpress.com/
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Aw! Just for you dearest, I will! Thanks so much Zee! You’re simply the best! Mwah! Lol
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Thanks babe. You rock!
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Hmmm,,,exceptional????? Tooo much revelation for one day…my head is swimming…..phew…
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You called me a case file…in the murky world of medicine, diagnosis are found in case files…who am i?? …hmmm…Zika, where art thou??? come and help out here…
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Mba nu Doc. This particular hot seat is for u. Lol.
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Lolzzzzzzzzzzzz! But you have already done the honors naa….now sweating, not a pleasant place to be between you and Yemie…Et Tu Zika….
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You do me great honor though,,,no one has called me a genius before….thanks…you are so kind…lolssss
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Or rather, it’s all GOD. I’m just a “tintini” reflection.
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Bullseye Zee! Anyhow yagayaga, all join! LMAO!
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Heheee. Gotya.
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lol…
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Thought provoking as usual….more power Sis…
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